No, Sorry, Would not work, You can't steal focus from a process without that process already given you permission to do that.
( The problem is that the other fm you mention is build on top on WinExplorer shell and they are hook into the Windows Shell a another way)
if MC would not do so much threading and block UI instead, then it might have worked.
But just keep refreshing is no ide. MC does not know when the copy is finished. MC does not know if it was 1 file or 42 million
It have no idea when the copy is done. for MC it is a fire and forget action. "They Windows the stuff in the clipboard, try to paste them to this location. And also. check with all registered shell extension first if they want to handle them instead. Okey,.. Good.. bye"